Anonymous: i realllllllllyyyy wana have sex with this guys. hes so fucking hot and all the girls want him, he wants to take me vs, and i want him to, but i no he is going to have sex wiith other girls and he is not a relationsip person he just gets kinckey with everyone, is this bad for me to do?and his dick is massive? how bad is it going to hurt and how will i got it in, in general
If you’re a virgin, I’d stay well clear of this boy, he sounds like bad news. It’s easier for girls to get attached to people they’ve slept with because of the way their hormones are. At the end of the day, it’s your decision whether you sleep with him or not, just be safe.
As for pain, I can’t tell you how much it will hurt, everyone’s different; it might hurt quite a bit or not hurt at all, I don’t know the answer.
Anonymous: Does size really matter?
‘it ain’t the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean’ ;)
but seriously, if a girl really likes you then no, it doesn’t matter.
Anonymous: My husbands dick sometimes smells quite weird, it puts me off giving him head, he washes regularly so i dont think its dirty, could it be where he sweats a lot or what? im quite worried
Maybe he just sweats more than most. Try taking a shower/bath with him before you go to the bedroom to see if it makes any difference. If you’re sure it’s not a hygiene issue you should probably talk to him about seeing a doctor.
Anonymous: Referring to the question you just answered about the girl being scared of bleeding everywhere... you cannot "break" the hymen doing anything but sexual activity. Fingers, a dildo, and a penis are the only things that can actually stretch your hymen, or tear it if it's done too fast.
breaking and tearing are literally the same thing, and yes you can tear it during sports and by using tampons. Why would it not tear when using a tampon but tear when you put your fingers up there? Chances are, both would tear it.
‘Breaking your hymen is really just causing a tear in the circular piece of skin surrounding your vagina. If you broke it by using tampons, for example, it may have only torn a little bit. It may need to tear more in order for a penis to fit in.’
Anonymous: I'm 18 and my boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years now. And we have touched and stuff, but every time he asked me to have sex with him said no = Im still a virgin. And its not because i don't feel comfortable with him. He's great, and have accepted when i said no never pushed me! But I'm really scared that the first time is gonna hurt and that I'm going to bleed all over the place. And that i won't be able to enjoy it or let him enjoy it because of the pain. Any advise???
I’m glad he doesn’t push you into anything you don’t want to. :)
As for bleeding/pain, it depends on the individual but chances are you won’t bleed much (or even at all, I didn’t). It might not even hurt either, if you’ve masturbated or he has fingered you before then you’ve probably broken your hymen already, which is the bit that tears when you have sex for the first time, causing the pain and bleeding. It can even break when you’re doing sports such as horse riding, or if you’ve worn tampons before it will probably be broken. I wouldn’t worry so much, if you’re tense and worried it will probably hurt you. Relax, you’ll be fine! :) ps. Although your first time will be wonderful and special, don’t expect it to feel amazing pleasure-wise. The more practise you get, the better it’ll be. Take care x
Anonymous: Im straight and have a boyfriend, but I'v always wanted to eat a girl out and have a girl eat me out. What should I do? I found another girl the exactly the same as me, should I eat her out and let her eat me out? Am i straight or bi? im kinda new to all this sex stuff.
You say you want to, so why not? If you think you’ll enjoy it and you have found a girl that wants the same, then I don’t see why you shouldn’t try. And who cares about the labels, you can be ‘straight’ but fantasize about being with another girl. You say whatever you feel you are. Do what you want to do/be who you want to be. :)
~ Jade
Anonymous: my boyfriend fingers me, we've been together for a while now, i feel so bad, he loves doing it! and i adore the feel of it, but im sure he expects something in return, im just too scared to do it, and probably wouldnt know how :/ any help?
Anonymous: Ok so I have the implant and today my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time without a condom. Is that safe? How much of a chance is there I could get pregnant?
if the implant is inserted while you are having a period it will be effective straight away, if not you need to use condoms for at least a week. If you’ve been on it longer than a week then it’s 99.9% effective, so you have a 0.01% chance of getting pregnant, and even then, you’d have to be ovulating. Don’t stress. :-)
~ Jade